How Do you Love? - Esther Perel is changing Relationships
I’M TRYING TO NOT DO WHAT’S ACCEPTED OR “NORMAL” ANYMORE.
The thing I’m hearing from ALL my friends in our age group is that they expected their marriages to replace friendships and have one person do the work of many, and life just doesn’t work like that. We can’t replace the village with just one person.
We CAN replace the tribe of our birth with a chosen group.
Group being the key.
How do you love?
This was written in response to Esther Perel’s work. I’ve read her books and listened to her in many formats. So much of what she says resonates with me deep in my core. Of course, I can’t just digest that content and not come up with more questions of my own. I’m constantly ruminating on her ideas and trying to put them into the stories of the people I know and love.
Then I saw this post on Instagram:
Her words are so reassuring in their validation that this is the time for change. Big change. Societal change. What we’ve been doing is not working for the vast majority of people. Love is the answer - but what does it look like?
I can’t wait to find out.